No one tells you. Mouths are closed and Hope is driving the party bus on The Big Day. No one tells you that there is a rather steep learning curve when united as one. That life would crack us open in ways we could have never imagined. That from each of these little quakes, seeds planted long ago, would be exposed to the elements. No one tells you that when you choose another, where there was once drought there will be rain. We have endured many storms, drudged for irrigati